In ethical nonmonogamy, we talk a lot about boundaries versus rules. These are helpful concepts for any person exploring ENM to be familiar with.

Setting rules for a newly open relationship is common, and generally just leads to frustration and heartache.

While this blog has historically focused on advice about how to have better experiences on dating apps, stay tuned for more general advice from Your Poly Friend!

It’s important to present yourself as someone your potential dates actually want to be around, not a giant, bitter bummer.

Getting back on the dating scene can make you wish you’d kept that Duo Lingo subscription active.

Writing a standout first message doesn’t have to be as hard as hitting the bullseye.

Don’t fall into the common “we-heavy” dating profile pitfall (or this creepy, haunted-looking well).

Being upfront about your relationship status when you’re dating as a nonmonogamous man is essential to saving everyone time and stress!

The decision to date someone who identifies as monogamous is a common challenge for nonmonogamous men. Here’s what I think.

Don’t fall into these common dating cliché pitfalls (or this scary waterfall).

Here’s why I am qualified to help nonmonogamous/poly/ENM men do better on dating sites.